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Ohh how I can relate to soooo much of this - not like other girls, when boys said this to me I was at once flattered and felt a little sick, therein lay patriarchy alongside a deeper knowing that was yet to be activated.

I love that you’ve called this the gathering, women’s circles have hands down been the best part of womanhood and motherhood for me. X

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Beautifully expressed. I feel embraced by The Gathering.

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Oh I'm so glad! That's the best response I could ask for. 😊

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I feel so lucky to have found The Gathering 🙏 Thank you for creating this place ❤️

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Oh thank you, that warms my heart so much!

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Mar 11Liked by Allegra Chapman

This was brilliant and resonant, thank you for sharing your experiences with us Allegra. Yes it is sadly so deeply ingrained, it feels extremely healing to be remembering ourselves, reclaiming our voices sharing our words and supporting each other. I love the sound of The Gathering, it sounds perfect and needed, I look forward to its unfolding xx

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Thank you so much, Lyndsay. Yes it really feels like coming home. There's a shift taking place, I think, hopefully a movement towards something better.

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Mar 8Liked by Allegra Chapman

Love the updated mission of The Gathering. And resonate with so much of this piece.

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Thank you!

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This is so beautiful Allegra, I can relate to so much and your words spoke directly to my inner teenager who was yearning to belong and when I didn’t feel that with other women I tried to find it with men instead by hiding parts of myself. It’s so complex and I also feel so strongly that women’s circles can be a huge part of the healing for so many reasons.

I feel rage and sadness at the engrained beliefs about separation and how we need to mistrust other women. And I also feel it still deeply as a fear… there is much work to be done but we are doing it and I’m celebrating you for all you are sharing here and for creating this beautiful space to gather! Congratulations on your publication rebirth, I’m excited to see how it evolves. Xxx

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