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Why I gave up on gentle parenting

Why I gave up on gentle parenting

And made my peace with f***ing up

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They fuck you up, your mum and dad.   

    They may not mean to, but they do.   

They fill you with the faults they had

    And add some extra, just for you.

from “This Be The Verse” by Philip Larkin

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